Tuesday, September 10, 2019

two thoughts into one, accusation and forgiveness

๐Ÿ’•You have never been accused of wrongdoing until you understand your intentions are so misunderstood that someone close to you thinks the worst. Intentions are what drive us but what is viewed by another, the truth that is twisted so far from the truth, is what gets noticed. It is terrible and many times irreparable. It's when others, not involved, who believe the misconception. It's hurtful and forgivable. The takeaway? Believe the best about others even when it appears they meant harm because they didn't. ๐Ÿ“

๐Ÿ’ฌThings that are forgivable leave scars on the person who was hurt. It's inevitable. They move on but there is always that scar that is numb, tingly, tough, and can be painful at times. Forgiveness is the only option to move on though. It helps with learning to trust again, and again, and again. We all try and go forward with life, but that accuser who was so very wrong, still has an effect on us. Maturity has a way of including these scars. How we get along and move forward is what makes or breaks us.

๐Ÿ’Meal tip: It's the end of summer, enjoy the fresh food in this recipe:

https://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/garden-fresh-grilled-veggie-pizza/

Garden-Fresh Grilled Veggie Pizza

๐Ÿ Household tip: Clean a flat surface, one that is by the front door, in a bedroom, or even the garage. Put everything away, not just in the room where it goes but completely put away. If there are some things to donate, put them in your car! Trash things you can and don't pull them back out later, :^0 hehehehehe

๐ŸŒผParenting tip: Discover something funny about yourself. If it's an expression, do it often and make those around you laugh. Your kids will think it's so funny, at junior high age they'll roll their eyes but still smile, and when they are adults, they will laugh even though it's not that funny anymore! Use it when you are separated  from your kids in public but they can still see you-and when you do it, they just shake their head and smile. It's your little secret to make them laugh and smiles are awesome.